& THE HOLIDAYS
TOM T. MOORE
The month of December is generally viewed as a great month
of parties, dinners with friends, and reunions with families. But it
can be a highly stressful time when you’re in charge of the dinner,
you must travel, or you and your family are worlds apart in lifestyles
Here are some tips and suggestions to make this time
period much less stressful and more pleasurable. Ten years ago, in reading
spiritual articles and books, I read a suggestion to request benevolent
outcomes for events in your life. Having made these requests between
10,000 and 15,000 times over the years, I am firmly convinced that our
Guardian Angels are there to assist us in living more gentle lives.
We just have to ask.
If you are cooking for your friends or family, consider
saying, “I request a Most Benevolent Outcome that the food I prepare
will be perfect for my group, and that our time spent together will
be enjoyable. Thank you.” Always thank your Guardian Angel, and
the more emotion you can put into these requests the better. These requests
need to be said out loud or in writing.
Here are some Holiday travel requests for Benevolent
· Your drive be safe to the airport or destination;
· Your luggage will arrive safely and on time;
· You speed through the Security Line with no delays;
· Your plane and any connections are on time;
· You sit next to someone interesting, or, if you need to sleep,
next to someone who will not want to talk;
· Your safety participating in sports.
You can request a Benevolent Outcome that your visit
with your family or acquaintances be cordial and pleasant. Just say,
“I ask that during the time I am at (name the location) that my
experience be delightful. Thank you. This may seem like you’re
asking a lot in some instances, but ASK FOR THE IMPOSSIBLE!
If you are worried about you and/or your children’s
safety while in the presence of someone whom you know to be physically,
mentally, or sexually abusive, then say, “I ask that my safety
(and that the safety of my children) be guaranteed now and in the future
in a way that is Benevolent to us all.” This can also be said
if you are currently in a relationship where you are fearful for the
There is what I call the “Radiant Effect”
when you make these requests. Many of these requests will be benevolent
for all of those around you, such as when you request a Benevolent Outcome
for a pleasant time with someone who has caused everyone problems. When
you request Benevolent Outcomes for yourself, it also affects others—in
this case those who are at the dinner, party, or reunion with you. It
makes for a much more pleasant time for everyone! These simple requests
can lower your stress and make your family’s holiday much more
congenial and joyful!
Have a Benevolent Holiday!
Tom T. Moore is an author and speaker. His books include THE GENTLE WAY series, plus FIRST CONTACT: Conversations with an ET and ATLANTIS & LEMURIA: The Lost Continents Revealed. He was voted "Best Self-Help Author" for the past three years by the readers of a health magazine. He is a telepath and answers questions sent to him from all over the world in his weekly newsletter, which can be subscribed to at www.thegentlewaybook.com.